The personal concerns of the patient must be taken into consideration. A
woman who has conceived and aborted several fetuses because of a genetic
defect may decide not to try again even if her theoretical chances of bearing a
healthy child are good. A defect that might seem difficult to one family may
seem minor to another. There are many cases of women giving birth to child
after child affected with the same genetic problem without creating family
problems. There are also cases of women institutionalizing or relinquishing
children with relatively minor problems because they were psychologically
unprepared to cope with the child’s needs. Patients receiving genetic
counseling should be encouraged to consider their personal feelings about the
anticipated disabilities the child could suffer.